🌿 You Are Not Alone
Dear one, I sense the heaviness in your heart as you wrestle with the shadow of ego—how it seems to build walls where there could be bridges, how it stirs anger and jealousy, making us feel isolated even among loved ones. You are not alone in this struggle. The Gita offers gentle light to help us see beyond the ego's illusions and find unity within ourselves and with others.
🕉️ Timeless Words
अहंकारं बलं दर्पं कामं क्रोधं च संश्रिताः।
मामात्मपरदेहेषु प्रद्विषन्तः सनातनम्॥
(Chapter 16, Verse 4)
English Translation:
"Those who are full of ego, strength, pride, desire, and anger, and who hate Me dwelling in others’ bodies—these are considered demoniac by the wise."
Meaning:
This verse reveals how ego fuels separation. When we identify strongly with "I" and "mine," pride and anger arise, causing us to resent others—even forgetting the divine presence within them. Ego blinds us to our shared essence, planting seeds of conflict and isolation.
🪬 Guiding Lights
- Ego is the root of separation because it insists on "I" and "you" instead of "we."
- Anger and jealousy are flames fed by ego’s hunger for superiority or possession.
- Recognizing the divine spark in every being softens the ego’s grip and opens the heart.
- True strength lies in humility and seeing ourselves as part of a greater whole.
- Letting go of ego does not mean losing yourself; it means finding your true self beyond the mask.
🌊 Inner Dialogues
You may hear a voice inside saying, "Why should I let go? I need to protect myself. If I don’t assert my worth, I will be lost." This is natural. Ego arises as a shield when we feel vulnerable. But this shield can become a prison, cutting us off from the warmth of connection. It’s okay to feel conflicted—this is the beginning of awareness.
📿 What He Would Say...
"My dear friend, the ego is like a veil that hides the truth of your oneness with all beings. When you cling to ‘I’ and ‘mine,’ you forget that the same light shines in everyone. Look beyond the surface—see Me in the eyes of those you feel anger or jealousy toward. In that recognition, the walls fall away, and love flows freely. You are not separate; you are the ocean, and others are waves rising from the same source."
🌱 A Familiar Story
Imagine two classmates competing fiercely for the top grade. Each sees the other as a rival, a threat to their success. Their ego convinces them there is only one winner, so they build walls of jealousy and anger. But when they finally collaborate on a project, they realize their strengths complement each other. The separation they felt was an illusion born of ego’s fear. Together, they shine brighter than alone.
✨ Just One Step Today
Try this: When you notice a surge of anger or jealousy, pause and silently remind yourself, “This feeling is ego speaking, not my true self.” Breathe deeply and imagine the person involved as a reflection of your own soul.
🧘 Pause the Scroll
- In what moments do I feel my ego most strongly separating me from others?
- How can I gently remind myself of the shared divinity in those I struggle with?
📢 Whisper to Share
"Where ego divides, love unites—look deeper, and see the same light in every heart."
🌼 A Final Blessing
May you find the courage to gently peel away the layers of ego, revealing the boundless connection beneath. Remember, you are never truly alone—your true self is woven into the fabric of all life. Walk forward with an open heart, and peace will be your companion.