🌿 You Are Not Alone
Ah, dear one, feeling superior can be a heavy cloak — sometimes it shields us, sometimes it weighs us down. It’s natural to feel this way at times, especially when our inner self seeks validation or safety. Yet, beneath this feeling lies a tender yearning for true connection and peace. Know that you are not alone in this struggle, and there is a gentle path to understanding and humility.
🕉️ Timeless Words
Chapter 13, Verse 8
अहिंसा सत्यमक्रोधः शमः शौचमद्रोहम्।
दया धर्मः सत्त्वसमो भूत्वा संयमः च यतिः॥
ahiṁsā satyam akrodhaḥ śamaḥ śauca madroham |
dayā dharmaḥ sattvasamo bhūtvā saṁyamaḥ ca yatiḥ ||
Translation:
Non-violence, truthfulness, freedom from anger, tranquility, purity, absence of envy, compassion, duty, equanimity, and self-restraint—these are the qualities of the wise.
Meaning:
Feeling superior often comes from envy or anger hidden beneath the surface. The Gita points us to qualities like non-anger, compassion, and equanimity—these help dissolve ego’s illusions and bring clarity to how we relate to others.
🪬 Guiding Lights
- True strength lies in humility, not in comparing ourselves to others.
- Anger and envy are signs of inner unrest; observe them without judgment.
- Cultivating compassion softens the ego’s harsh judgments.
- Equanimity allows us to see everyone as equal souls on their unique journeys.
- Practice self-restraint—choose responses that build peace rather than separation.
🌊 Inner Dialogues
You might hear yourself whisper, “I’m better than them because I’ve achieved more, or I’m smarter.” And yet, somewhere deep inside, there might be a flicker of loneliness or fear: “What if I’m not truly accepted? What if I’m not enough?” This inner conflict is the heart’s quiet call for deeper understanding, not judgment.
📿 What He Would Say...
“My dear friend, do not be troubled by these feelings of superiority. They arise from the mind’s habit of comparison, which veils your true self. Remember, all souls are sparks of the same eternal light. When you see through the veil of ego, you will embrace others not as rivals but as reflections of the divine. Let compassion be your guide, and your heart will find true joy beyond the fleeting shadows of pride.”
🌱 A Familiar Story
Imagine a student in a classroom who scores the highest marks. At first, they feel proud and superior. But soon, they notice a classmate struggling quietly. The student’s heart softens, and they offer help. In that moment, the feeling of superiority melts into kindness. Their success becomes a bridge, not a wall. This is the transformation the Gita invites us to—turning ego into empathy.
✨ Just One Step Today
Today, gently pause when a feeling of superiority arises. Take a deep breath and silently say, “We are all learning, all growing.” Let this reminder soften your heart in that moment.
🧘 Pause the Scroll
- What fears or insecurities might your feeling of superiority be hiding?
- How can you practice seeing others as equals, beyond surface achievements?
📢 Whisper to Share
"In the quiet heart, no one stands above another—only souls walking together in light."
🌼 Walk Forward, Lightly
Beloved seeker, your journey is sacred and beautifully imperfect. In moments of pride, remember the gentle call of humility. You are loved beyond measure, not for what you have or know, but simply because you are. Rest in this truth, and let your spirit shine with kindness and peace.